Grief in Motion: Losing Someone During the Holidays

Since my Aunt Deborah passed this week, I’ve still been moving through life. Christmas parties. All-day strategy sessions with clients. Meetings I committed to long before grief entered the room. In a normal week, I’m at my home office 90% of the time – getting work done, liaising with my ADS Agency team – emerging…

Sticks & Stones: Charlie Kirk, Debate and the Power of Words

Read Time: 7 Mins. “Sticks and stones may break my bones, but words will never hurt me.” That’s cute to say, but it’s not exactly true, is it? No one I know is “cheering” Charlie Kirk’s death. The narrative that people on the left are somehow celebrating an assassination is a distortion. A man has…

Want to Stop School Shootings? Look to Scotland.

Today’s tragedy in Minneapolis — where two children were killed and more than a dozen others wounded during a school Mass — is yet another grim reminder of how broken America’s relationship with guns has become. Once again, people will mourn. Once again, there will be the lighting of candles and whispered, fervent prayers. And…

An Answer | #TheScotlandBook Chapter 9 Snippet

Not every heartbreak comes crashing through the door. Some just settle in — like steeped tea left cooling on the counter. You don’t even realize how strong it’s gotten until it’s too much to swallow. In Chapter 9 of The Scotland Book, everything’s packed except my certainty. I’m in between worlds — not in Columbia,…

That First Hint of Razor Throat: A Summer Covid Story

Last Saturday night, I was sitting at our round mahogany table – that cozy compromise between dining and catching the TV – when I told Marc, “My throat hurts… all of a sudden.” Not a scratchy build-up, just instant pain, like a mild case of strep. A sudden onset that sent me racing to the…

Flying with Queen: A Lesson in Humanity

I sat down in my seat, 54F by the window, and next to me was a massive black bucket purse with an even bigger, well-worn and very warm-looking fluffy cream coat piled on top. The purse was stuffed to the brim, and the coat was so puffy and huge that it practically swallowed up the…